Unusually, I’ve been pretty MIA from this blog and the Twitter world this past week. In the last 9 days I only managed to publish a pre-loaded post and the Holiday Fiesta details, and that was a real struggle to make happen. It’s just been one of those week. It’s super crazy at work – I’ve got a huge event today that has been sucking away all my time and energy. As the days crept by and ModlyChic was neglected things seemed more bleak looking. I had to remake the program for tonight’s event after the printer couldn’t use the first attempt. While I was not even trying to take an outfit shot, my camera fell off my bed and now the lens won’t close. My face looks like a 14-year-old boys with all the sudden break outs. Two of my nails, which I have been trying to grow out for the event, ripped off yesterday. Sleep? What’s that. Coffee? We’re pretty much BFFs at this point. The gym? You’re kidding, right?
So, I sat in my room Thursday evening and tried to make the internet work, silently cursing the minimal signal and slowly loading page. I couldn’t remember what this week’s theme was and I dreaded the time it would take to get this up and ready for Friday. But when the page finally loaded, after I restarted the whole internet service, I felt properly chastised by the words I had written weeks before. This is the week we are supposed to talk about the things we’re grateful for. AKA Katy get over yourself and take a look at all you have. The Attitude shift was almost instantaneous. So, without further ado, my list in my particular order of what I’m thankful for at this moment in my life…
What I’m Thankful For:
- The FBFF and fashion blogging community. You guys inspire me daily.
- Group text messages with my siblings.
- The voices of Gavin DeGraw, Rob Thomas, David Nail, Dierks Bentely, David Gray, Michael Buble – they can brighten any day.
- The genuine joy in my dad’s voice when I call him.

- The unfailing generosity of my mom.
- The adorable mother my younger sister makes, and her perfect son, my godson.
- The courage my sister Emily has to start her own business.
- The love my brother Tom has for his profession and the pride he takes in it.
- The strength of character Peter has for joining the Marines and enduring bootcamp.
- The fact that Monica looks just like me when I was her age… we’re practically clones.
- The fact that Joe asked to interview me for a reporter project her has and that he couldn’t think of anyone better to interview.
- The way Sam has grown up right before my eyes.
- The continued spoiled cuteness of the youngest one!
- The holiday cards my aunt sends with only her signature. (Although I hear she send some of the other cousins money for beer!)
- Author Madeline L’Engle and her creations, which made me want to write with character and depth.
- My published book and the people who actually bothered to buy, read and review it.
- My new love for thrifting and consignment selling. It’s saved me oodles of money and made me a couple hundred bucks too.
- The Swapaholics who have helped me build a great wardrobe with swap finds and are the inspiration behind my upcoming SchoolHouseSwap in Chicago this December.
- Mass Ave. Tavern and Sunset Grill – two of my favorite places to go for a beer with friends on a Friday night.

- Living in a big city and all that entails.
- Not owning a car and only needing to use a Zipcar once so far.
- Good friends who know just when to leave a Facebook message or send a text message. (Mags – this is you!)
- Pen pals – yes, like we write legit old school letters back and forth. (Kristen, Maria, Maggie, etc…)
- My MacBook Pro – even if it is getting slower. Come to think of it, all Mac products – my iPhone and classic iPod rank up there too.
- High heels, big earrings and all things animal print.
- The ability to read.
- The desire to write.
- Asics gym shoes.
- Credit cards and learning how not to use them over the last three months.
- The gift of a never-wavering faith.
- Colored tights, aviator sunglasses and big rings.
- Fallen yellow leaves blanketing the sidewalks.
- The fact that while don’t have a lot of money, and hardly any expendable income, I’m not truly wanting for anything.
- The approaching holidays and the Christmas music I’ll listen to after Thanksgiving.
- Great haircuts from Anthony.
- Feb. 18, 2008
- My grandmother taking time to teach me how to play solitaire. And my other grandma teaching me how to play hearts and euchre, reminding me there are no friends in a game of cards.
- The winter days I spent with my dad hunting.
- Days spent at Pell Lake and exploring the rubber bridge.
- Clear starry nights and the freedom to enjoy them without fear.
- Freedom of the press and my journalism education.
- Twitter and Facebook – is it weird to be thankful for them? I have met some amazing people as a result of interactions there so it seems appropriate.
- The 59,000 words I have completed on my next young adult book.
- Family traditions – like shots of Crown Royal to celebrate any and everything.
Whoa.. I could keep going now that the wheels have started turning but I need to be up early to prep for the big day. Can’t wait to see what everyone else is thankful for. Leave a comment and tell me the most original-to-you thing that you are thankful for.
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Hoowah – that is one thorough thank you list! I’ve had a similiar week to you (or three!)
Thanksgiving is a lovely tradition and it is important to remind ourselves of all the things we have and to be grateful for them – my original-to-me thing would have to be flamenco!
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It’s wonderful to think of the things we are thankful for. It’s a good habit to do every day. Like you said, it can turn around your mood just thinking of things you are thankful for and then other issues don’t so look so bad..
Sylvia recently posted..What I’m most grateful for right now
Wow, that’s some list! Great topic, it’s so important to be reminded about all the things that we should be thankful for!
Nanne recently posted..FBFF – Gratitude
Love all of these. I was going to continue writing my list when I realized I have actual work to do, so I had to stop. Lots of great things to think about.
Sam recently posted..97. It’s time to be thankful
I love that you are able to recall so many little things. I honestly fet so overwhelmed thinking about all the great things I have in my life!
Iris recently posted..FBFF: I Am Grateful For…
It really is humbling to see all the things I have. Life is good – even on the days I’m thinking it’s not.
Awesome list! I was having one of those kind of weeks too where it was easy to moan and complain about what wasn’t happening/working. Doing this FBFF today shifted my focus as well so it was perfect timing!
MJ recently posted..Friend Friday: What I’m Thankful For…
That happened to me too. I so needed this chance to write about all the things I’m thankful for. It really helped give me a new angle.
Just did mine! I think the most “unique to me” thing I’m thankful for is the fact that both my husband and I had Lasik eye surgery this year and it’s made such a world of difference for both of us!
Bethie the Boo recently posted..FBFF – What we’re thankful for
That’s an awesome thankful list, especially considering what a week you’ve had. I read that and just wanted to give you a big hug!
Dancing Branflake recently posted..Real Talk
That really is a wonderful list and I agree with some many of the points on your list, especially not wanting for anything. I’ve been meaning to write a list of all of the things that I’m thankful for, especially since I’ve been having some bad days lately. I’m sure the goods will always outweigh the bads.
Sheena recently posted..Long Lost Hobby
The list really helped me put a new perspective on everything. I’m so glad I did it.
Aw the FBFF community loves you too!
Kimberlee recently posted..FBFF: What I’m Thankful For
Ok, what’s Feb. 18, 2008? Is that the day you started the blog? Love the topic; thank you for the reminder to be grateful and for all the amazing things I have in my life.
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Thank you so much for the topic. It’s been another tough year, and I really needed this reminder to count my blessings.
Katie recently posted..Friend Friday – Thankfulness
Love this positive attitude, lady! (I’m totally feeling your pain with the terrible weeks…I’ve just returned back to work from maternity leave and in the process of a root canal turned infection…yeah…)
btw…so looking forward to that swap next month!
April – Looking forward to seeing you there! Have you gotten your ticket yet? I didn’t see your name on the list.
Not yet! I was waiting for one of my gfs…might just have her get her ticket at the door…
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I truly enjoyed reading your list and how much thought and time you took to reflect what you love about each person that is important to you.
I would have loved to go into that detail but I have to get some sleep.
Have a great weekend Katy.
Daphne.
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Sleep is so important. Glad you took advantage and slept. I need to do that soon.
I would have loved to go into that detail..I truly enjoyed reading your list and how much thought and time you took to reflect what you love about each person that is important to you.Have a nice day!
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This is so great. I am still compiling things to be thankful for. I encourage us all to pick up a copy of Ann Voskamp’s book, One Thousand Gifts. Happy reading and Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
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you’re so wonderful, katy rose. your list and the oodles about your family and friends really warms my heart.
p.s. i know i’m not so very active in participating in your fbff but really the group is really fantastic and supportive, i love it too.
Jamillah recently posted..I Heart the Internet
Thanks Jamillah – You are too sweet. PS I’m going to be in NYC this weekend. Are you going to be around?
Friend! Yes I’m around!!! Would love to see you. I’ll be with family in Queens all Saturday but Sunday I’m free, so let me know if you’re free anytime then. Will email my number.
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Nice post!it’s so important to be reminded about all the things that we should be thankful for!Hope you enjoy your Thanks giving day!
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i’m most thankful for the fact that even in just a few months of blogging i’ve already found great readers…thanks everyone
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